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Your Personality Type: Rebel
You're a Rebel and in many ways an outsider. You refuse to adapt your personality to please other people. You are always the same and always yourself, whether you're at work, at a party, or with your family and friends.
It's hard to write a personality summary for a Rebel like yourself. First, you're skeptical by nature and probably have your doubts about this report even before you read it. Second, you see yourself as the exception to most rules. You don't like to be boxed into a type. So we can only offer you the following summary and suggest that if you find a shoe that fits, wear it...or at least try it on for size.
To you, being a Rebel is not about being the "bad boy or girl." (Or perhaps we should say it's not just about that.) Being a Rebel means questioning ideas and authority. It's about your commitment to being a free thinker and making your own judgments and decisions. You can see it in the eclectic music you listen to, for example, and your unique clothing style. Although you're a very private person, those closest to you get to enjoy your sarcastic wit and spontaneity. Your golden rule in relationships is that no one tries to control the other.
Although some people see you as a pain in the neck (and other body parts), you actually have an enormous respect for people and individual rights. You reject the conformist idea that people are like interchangeable parts. You look to find in others what you've always had—a spark of life that uniquely defines you. You often help bring this out in other people. For example, you're the type of friend that doesn't always tell you what you want to hear. You can't stand hypocrites and won't let your friends, family, or co-workers get away with saying one thing and doing another.
Unlike the most famous Rebel, who was "without a cause," you have to have a purpose in life. This isn't easy when you reject society's standard scripts for how to become an adult. You know going after the perfect job, car, and house is a hollow pursuit. You reject any path that asks you to sacrifice yourself for someone else's gain. Instead, your path requires that you take the proverbial "road less traveled." You have to follow your "bliss" (or what uniquely engages you). As an official "outsider," you have to find other outsiders who are also pursuing their bliss and can appreciate your spark of life.

Your Love Style: Destined
Finding your love is like finding the other part of yourself that makes you complete.
For you, falling in love is like being reunited with the other part of yourself that finally gives meaning to everything in your life. This "soul mate" completes you. You empower each other to be the best you can be. You get each other's jokes and love the same books and movies. You talk until you go hoarse. You enjoy an intimacy that most people can't even imagine.
The downside of the Destined love style is that you typically have to search for years and years (and go on lots of bad dates) to find this type of love. Destiny is on your side, but doesn't always follow your timeline. Also, the intense mental, emotional, and spiritual bonding you go through can at times get in the way of just having fun or enjoying great sex. Given how hard it is to find a potential soul mate, it's easy to understand why you would take it so seriously. Just don't forget the equally silly and sexy aspects of love.
Your approach to love can change over time. You may go through periods when you need a more casual love style, especially after a painful breakup with a potential soul mate. For now, the common features of your love "style" include:
You're most likely to fall in love with a man who's independent by nature. He won't expect to merge his life with yours. Keeping separate friends, for example, will just give you more to talk about when you're together.
Like the song says, "If you want to know if he loves you so, it's in his kiss." You want passionate kisses and won't settle for anything less. The two of you will probably be instantly attracted to each other. You're not a purist who thinks love is a saintly connection between "friends." You have plenty of friends. You want a lover!
Both partners have to decide when they're ready to make a commitment and at what pace. Rushing into a commitment only adds to the pressure of forming a relationship. The two of you have to find the type and level of commitment that makes sense given your feelings and how long you've been together.

Your Biggest Challenge Is: How can you be a Rebel with a cause?
Rebels are caught in the middle of a push and pull contest within their personalities. One side of you wants to change the world (or at least your part of it), while the other side tends to get frustrated with the process and procrastinate, or just give up.
As a Rebel, you like to shake things up. You want to see action, not endless discussion. It's frustrating to see how hard it is to change the status quo. At work you can argue a point until you go hoarse and still see no change. As you see it, most people would rather set up committees or bicker about details than take any real action.
That's how we end up with Rebels "without a cause." Perhaps your cause is a more local one. You can make a difference in your own life and the lives of your friends and family by being an authentic, original person. There are plenty of role models for conformist clones, but society needs its Rebel role models, too.
Here are some other personal causes you might work on:
You notice what you're missing more than what you have. It's human nature to compare ourselves with other people. If you find you come up wanting in that equation, it's easy to become envious and resentful. Even if you can't stop these comparisons, you can shift the balance of your attention by reminding yourself of all the good things you have going for you.
You don't give yourself enough credit. The negative voice inside your head that says you're useless or unlovable gets way too much airtime. Even if you can't cut down on the negative voice, you can turn up the volume of the inner voice that says you're liked, talented, and that your strengths outweigh your weaknesses.
You can be very demanding and difficult to be around at times. When people see you're in an irritable mood, they probably head in the opposite direction. They know you're ready to pick a fight. Your challenge is noticing when these moods hit you and learning how to keep your reactions in check or warn others to leave you alone for a while.